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Every mental health quiz on Theraglee, by topic

312 short, plain-language check-ins on the things people actually search for: anxiety, sleep, relationships, work, self-esteem, habits, boundaries and more. Each one ends with a short written read-back of what your answers point to and a few specific things to try. None of them diagnoses anything.

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Adaptability

Aging

  • Aging and Self-Image — Looks at how getting older is changing the way you see your face, body, and place in the world, and whether that shift feels like loss, gain, or a bit of both. For anyone counting gray hairs or years.
  • Midlife Check-In — A check-in for the middle years, when the questions about time, choices and what is left tend to get louder, for anyone somewhere between forty and sixty.
  • Milestone Birthdays — Checks how a big birthday is sitting with you, whether it is thirty, fifty or eighty, and what the number is stirring up about where you are and where you hoped to be.

Anger

  • Anger Check-In — A quick look at how much room anger has taken up in your life lately, and how much it costs you. For anyone who has been feeling shorter-fused than they would like.
  • How Your Anger Comes Out — Looks at what you actually do when anger hits: whether it leaks out sideways, blows up, goes quiet or gets spoken plainly. For anyone curious about their own style.
  • Irritability Check-In — How short your fuse has been running lately and what tends to light it. For anyone who has noticed small things landing harder than they used to.

Anxiety

  • Control and Letting Go — A look at how tightly you hold on to plans, outcomes, and other people's choices, and what happens inside you when something slips out of your hands. For anyone who finds letting go harder than it looks.
  • How Often You Need Reassurance — Asking “are we okay?” or “did I do that right?” is human. This check-in looks at how much you rely on other people's reassurance to settle anxiety and whether the relief lasts.
  • The Dread Before Things — Sometimes the hardest part of an event is the week before it. This check-in looks at how much you dread things ahead of time and how that dread compares with how the thing actually goes.
  • What You Avoid and Why — Avoiding a feared thing brings quick relief and slow cost. This check-in looks at what you sidestep, how often, and whether the sidestepping has started to shape your week.
  • Where Anxiety Lives in Your Body — Anxiety is not just a thought. This check-in looks at how it shows up physically for you, how well you read those signals, and what you do once you notice them.
  • Your Safety Behaviors — Safety behaviors are the small things you do to feel okay in an anxious moment: sitting near the exit, holding your phone, keeping a script ready. This check-in asks how many you carry and how much they hold you up.

Assertiveness

  • Assertiveness Quiz — Learn how assertive you are in expressing your needs.
  • Holding a Boundary Under Pushback — Setting a limit is one thing. This check-in looks at what happens when someone argues, sulks or keeps asking after you have already said where you stand.
  • Negotiating for Yourself — Salary, rent, the price of a used couch, what time to meet. This check-in looks at whether you ask for what you are worth, and what happens in you when you do.
  • Saying No at Work — Looks at what happens in you when a request lands and you would rather decline, for anyone whose yes comes out before they have decided.
  • Saying No Without Guilt — How a no lands in you, from the moment you say it to the hours afterward. For people who can decline but pay for it in guilt.
  • Speaking Up in Groups — Meetings, group chats, dinner tables. This check-in looks at whether your voice makes it into the room, and what happens inside you when it doesn’t.
  • Speaking Up With Your Doctor — Doctors, therapists, dentists, anyone in charge of your health. This check-in looks at whether you can ask questions, disagree, and say what you need in the appointment room.
  • Standing Up to Authority — Bosses, landlords, officials, anyone with a title. This check-in looks at whether you can push back on someone with power over you, and what it costs you when you try.

Authenticity

Body

  • Body Image Check-In — How you feel about the body you live in, and how much that feeling steers your days. For anyone whose reflection has been taking up more room than they would like.
  • Kindness Toward Your Body — Explores how you speak to, look at, and take care of the body you live in, and whether that relationship is more like a friend or a critic. For anyone who has stood in front of a mirror and sighed.
  • Listening to Body Signals — How well you notice what your body is telling you, from hunger and thirst to tension and tiredness, and what you do with the message once you hear it.
  • Living With a Chronic Condition — For anyone living alongside a long-term health issue. This looks at energy, pacing, asking for help, and how much room your health takes up in how you see yourself.
  • Tension and Aches — Where stress lives in your body: tight shoulders, a clenched jaw, a knotted stomach, or nothing you can name. For anyone who is carrying more than they realize.

Boundaries

  • Guilt After Setting a Boundary — The limit is set. Now the guilt arrives. This check-in looks at what happens in the hours and days after you protect yourself, and how you treat yourself through it.
  • Losing Yourself in Others — Looks at how much of you stays intact inside close relationships: your opinions, your plans, your friends, and your sense of what you want when someone else wants something different.
  • Obligations and Invitations — Weddings, work drinks, a cousin’s third baby shower. This check-in looks at how you decide which invitations to accept, and how much of your social calendar is duty rather than choice.
  • Overcommitment — Looks at how many things you have said yes to and whether there is any of you left over, for anyone whose calendar has no white space.
  • People-Pleasing Check-In — A look at how much of your day goes to keeping other people comfortable, and what it costs you. For anyone who suspects they say yes too fast.
  • Personal Space and Privacy — Your body, your room, your phone, your business. This check-in looks at how comfortable you are keeping some things yours, and saying so when someone reaches past the line.
  • Protecting Your Time — How your hours get spent and who gets to spend them. A check-in for anyone whose calendar keeps filling up with other people’s priorities.
  • Repairing After a Boundary Slip — You meant to hold the line and you didn’t. This check-in looks at what you do next, with yourself and with the other person, when a boundary gives way.
  • Taking On Other People's Feelings — Where your feelings end and someone else’s begin. For people who leave a conversation carrying a mood that was never theirs to begin with.
  • Work Boundaries — Looks at the lines you draw around your time, your role and your energy at work, and how well they hold when someone pushes.

Boundary Setting

Burnout

  • Burnout Check-In — A quick read on how worn down work has left you lately, for anyone who suspects tired has turned into something heavier.

Caregiving

  • Caregiver Strain — A gentle check on how caring for someone else is affecting you, for anyone looking after a parent, partner, child or friend alongside everything else.
  • Caring for Aging Parents — Looks at how you are managing the shift into looking after a parent, and how much of you is left over, for adult children in a caregiving role.
  • Compassion Fatigue — Checks on the slow wear of caring for others, for anyone who helps, supports or looks after people and is starting to feel nothing left to give.

CBT

  • Old Beliefs About Yourself — Explores the early conclusions you drew about who you are, like “I’m the difficult one” or “I’m not smart,” and how much they still run your life. For anyone who suspects a childhood verdict is still in charge.

Change

  • Ready for a Big Change — Weighs how prepared you feel for a large change you are considering, such as a move, a new career or ending something, and where the hesitation lives.
  • Seasonal Mood Shifts — How the turning of the year, shorter days, and long winters affect your mood and energy. For anyone who notices the calendar showing up in how they feel.

Communication

  • Bottling Up Your Needs — The things you want but never say. This check-in looks at how far your needs travel before they reach another person, and what happens when they stay inside.
  • Difficult Conversations — A look at how you approach the conversations you dread, whether with a partner, a friend or a family member: how long you wait, how they go, and how you feel afterward.
  • Emotional Honesty — Looks at how truthfully you show what you feel, to yourself and to the people close to you, versus smoothing it over. For anyone who says “I’m fine” more than they mean it.
  • Listening at Home — Looks at how well you actually listen to the people you live with, whether a partner, kids, roommates or parents, once the day’s noise is factored in.
  • Over-Apologizing — Sorry can be a bridge or a reflex. This check-in looks at how often you apologize, what for, and whether it is protecting you or shrinking you.
  • Oversharing — Where the line sits between opening up and telling too much, too soon. For anyone who has walked away from a conversation wishing they could take half of it back.
  • Passive Aggression — Looks at whether frustration tends to come out as sarcasm, silence, “forgetting” or the cold shoulder rather than plain words. For anyone who has been told they are hard to read when annoyed.
  • Venting or Processing — Looks at what happens when you talk about something upsetting: whether it leaves you clearer or just louder. For anyone who has noticed that venting can feel good and change nothing.
  • Your Apology Style — Everyone hurts the people they love sometimes. This looks at what you do next: how you say sorry, how you receive one, and whether the apology actually mends anything.

Confidence

  • Confidence in Your Voice — Looks at how comfortably you speak up in meetings, groups, and conversations that matter, and what stops you when you go quiet. For anyone who has had the right thing to say and swallowed it.
  • Courage Check-In — Looks at how you meet the moments that scare you: the hard conversation, the risk, the thing you have been avoiding, for anyone wondering whether fear is deciding for them.
  • Performance Nerves — Presentations, recitals, tests, interviews, big games. This check-in looks at how nerves show up when you're being watched or measured, and whether they sharpen you or shut you down.
  • Trusting Yourself — Five questions about how far you rely on your own judgment, gut, and memory, and what happens when a decision is yours alone. For anyone who second-guesses themselves more than they would like.

Conflict Avoidance

Conflict Resolution

Conflict Resolution Style

Creativity Tendencies

Curiosity Level

DBT

  • Acting Opposite to the Urge — Explores whether you can do the reverse of what a feeling demands, like moving when sadness says stay still or staying when fear says run. A DBT idea in plain language, for anyone stuck in the same loops.
  • Distress Tolerance — Looks at how you get through moments that are painful and cannot be fixed right away, without making them worse. Uses ideas from DBT in plain language, for anyone who struggles to sit through a hard hour.
  • Riding Out Urges — Looks at what you do when a strong urge hits, whether to text, snap, quit, spend or reach for something, and how you handle the wave. Draws on ideas from DBT.
  • Tolerating Discomfort — Anxiety is often less about the feeling itself than about how hard it is to sit with it. This check-in looks at how you handle unpleasant feelings without rushing to escape them.

Decision Making

  • Anxiety in Your Decisions — A look at how anxiety shapes the way you choose: the small everyday calls, the bigger ones, and what happens once a decision is made. For anyone who feels stuck or keeps second-guessing.

Decision-Making Confidence

Decision-Making Style

Depression

  • Feeling Flat or Numb — Whether feelings have gone muffled lately, with the highs and lows both turned down. For anyone who has said “I am fine” when the truer answer was “I feel nothing much”.
  • Hope Right Now — A check-in on how much future you can see from where you stand today. For anyone whose tomorrows have started to look faint or hard to picture.
  • Low Mood Check-In — A gentle look at how heavy the last two weeks have felt, for anyone whose days have been running a little gray. You answer honestly, and the score reflects back what it hears.
  • Pleasure and Interest Lately — How much the things you used to enjoy still pull at you. For anyone who has noticed that hobbies, people, or food feel a little more beige than they once did.

Digital Life

  • Comparing Online — Other people's highlight reels are easy to measure yourself against. This looks at how much comparison creeps in when you are online and what it does to how you see your own life.
  • Doomscrolling — Doomscrolling is the pull to keep reading bad news long after it stops being useful. This looks at how often it catches you and how you feel when you surface.
  • Fear of Missing Out — A look at the low hum of worry that everyone else is somewhere better, doing something more. It asks how that hum shapes your choices, your phone habits, and how you feel about your own life.
  • News Overload — Being informed and being flooded are not the same thing. This looks at how much news you take in, how it lands, and whether it leaves room for the rest of your life.
  • Notification Overload — Every buzz asks for a piece of your attention. This looks at how many you get, how you respond, and what all that pinging does to your day.
  • Phone Habits Check-In — A short look at where your phone sits in your day, from the first reach in the morning to the last scroll at night. For anyone curious whether their phone is a tool or a reflex.
  • Screen Time and Mood — Screens can lift a mood or flatten one. This looks at what your time on screens does to how you feel, and whether you notice the difference.
  • Social Media and Self-Image — Looks at how your feeds shape the way you see your own life, looks, and worth, and how you feel when you finally put the phone down. For anyone who closes an app feeling smaller than when they opened it.
  • Tech-Free Time — Time away from screens is where a lot of rest and thinking happens. This looks at how much of it you get, how it feels, and how easily you can make it.
  • Texting and Digital Communication — Looks at how texting, group chats and messaging apps shape your close relationships: what gets said on screen, what gets misread, and what happens to the harder conversations.

Emotion Regulation

  • Avoiding or Facing Feelings — Looks at whether you tend to sit with difficult emotions or find ways around them, and what that costs. For anyone who has noticed feelings piling up unopened.
  • Coming Back to Calm — Measures your recovery time after something gets you worked up, and what helps or hinders it. For anyone who stays angry, tearful or shaky long after the moment has passed.
  • Emotional Overwhelm — Checks how often feelings pile up faster than you can sort them, and what you do when they do. For anyone who has felt flooded, frozen or on the edge of tears lately.
  • Envy Check-In — Looks at how often comparison and envy show up, how you feel when they do, and whether they point you somewhere useful or just make you miserable. For anyone who has closed an app feeling smaller.
  • Frustration Tolerance — Measures how you handle things that are slow, stuck, broken or simply not going your way. Useful if small obstacles seem to hit harder than they should.
  • Knowing Your Triggers — Looks at how well you can spot the situations, people and states that set off your strongest reactions, and what you do with that knowledge. For anyone tired of being caught off guard.
  • Letting Feelings Out — Whether your feelings find a way out through words, tears, movement, or a page, or stay bottled until they leak. For anyone who has been holding a lot in.
  • Mood Shifts Through the Day — Tracks how much your mood swings from morning to night and how well you ride those changes. For anyone who feels like a different person at 8 a.m. and 8 p.m.
  • Naming Your Feelings — Looks at how easily you can tell what you are feeling and put it into words, beyond “fine” or “stressed.” For anyone who suspects their emotional vocabulary could use a stretch.
  • Reacting or Responding — Looks at the gap between something happening and what you do next, and whether that gap is a split second or a breath. For anyone who wishes they had paused first.
  • Reading Your Own Mood — How well you notice a mood shift while it is happening, rather than only afterward. For anyone who has been surprised by their own reaction more than once lately.

Emotional Expression

Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Regulation

Emotional Resilience

Empathetic Listening

Empathy For Self

Empathy In Action

Empathy Level

  • Empathy Level Quiz — Assess how empathetic you are toward others’ feelings and perspectives.

Family

  • Boundaries With Family — Family can push on lines that hold up fine everywhere else. This check-in looks at how you handle unsolicited advice, guilt trips and the old roles you slip back into.
  • Family Dynamics — A look at how you move inside your family: the roles you fall into, how much of yourself you keep, and how you feel after time together. For anyone whose family, close or complicated, still shapes them.
  • Holiday Family Stress — Holidays can bring warmth and a lot of pressure at once. This looks at how you handle the visits, the expectations and the old family patterns that show up with the decorations.
  • In-Laws and Extended Family — Looks at how you handle the wider family that comes with a partner or a long life: visits, opinions, expectations, and where you and your partner stand on it together.

Focus

  • Boredom Tolerance — Boredom is uncomfortable, and it is also where ideas and rest often begin. This looks at what you do with an empty moment and how quickly you need to fill it.
  • Deep Work Capacity — Deep work means long, uninterrupted stretches on something that takes real thought. This looks at how much of that you can do, how often you get it, and what stands in the way.
  • Focus and Distraction — How long can you stay with one thing before something pulls you away? This looks at your attention on an ordinary working day and what gets in its way.
  • Mental Fatigue — How tired your mind is, apart from your body, and what that is doing to your thinking, memory, and patience. For anyone who feels foggy after a full night of sleep.
  • Multitasking Overload — Checks how much your attention is being split at work and what it costs, for anyone whose day is all tabs and no finished thing.

Food

  • Eating When Feelings Run High — How your eating shifts when stress, sadness, or boredom run high, without any focus on what or how much. For anyone who has noticed the fridge becoming a mood tool.
  • Skipping Meals and Fuel — Whether your body gets fed on time, or whether meals keep losing out to busy days, stress and forgetting. For anyone who often realizes at 3 p.m. that they have not eaten.
  • Your Relationship With Food — How eating fits into your days: whether food feels like nourishment, a chore, a battleground or a comfort. For anyone who wants a kinder, easier relationship with what is on their plate.

Forgiveness Tendencies

Friendship

  • Keeping Up With Friends — Looks at how your friendships are holding up as life gets busier: who you reach out to, how often, and whether the contact leaves you feeling closer or further apart.
  • Making New Friends — Making friends as an adult is hard for almost everyone. This looks at how you find new people, how you follow up, and what gets in the way.

Goal Orientation

Goal Setting

Goals

  • Dreams You Have Put Off — A check-in on the thing you have always meant to do, and the reasons it keeps waiting, for anyone with a dream that has been on hold for years.
  • Making Room to Learn — Learning something new as an adult takes time, patience, and a tolerance for being bad at it. This looks at whether you make that room in your life and how you handle the early stumbles.
  • Starting vs. Finishing — Some people love a beginning and lose steam near the end; others find the start hardest. This looks at where your energy lives in a project and where it drains away.
  • Your Planning Style — Some people plan every hour; others wing it and hope. This looks at how you organize a week, how well the plan holds, and how you feel when it does not.

Gratitude Awareness

Gratitude Expression

Gratitude Practice

Grief

  • Anniversaries and Hard Dates — A check-in on how you handle the dates that carry loss: a death anniversary, a birthday, a holiday, for anyone who feels the calendar tightening as one approaches.
  • Grief Check-In — A gentle look at how grief is sitting with you right now, for anyone carrying a loss, whether it happened last month or years ago.
  • Life After a Loss — Looks at how ordinary life is taking shape again after someone died, for anyone who is months or years past the loss and wondering how they are really doing.
  • Losing a Pet — A gentle check-in after the death of an animal companion, for anyone whose house has gone quiet and who may feel their grief is not being taken seriously.
  • Supporting Someone Who Is Grieving — Looks at how you are showing up for someone who has lost a person they love, and how you are holding up yourself, for friends, partners and family of the bereaved.

Grounding

  • Comfort and Physical Soothing — How you comfort your body when you are upset: warmth, touch, weight, movement, a hot drink, or nothing at all. For anyone who has never thought of the body as a place to find calm.
  • How Your Nervous System Settles — After stress spikes, your body is supposed to come back down. This check-in looks at how quickly and fully yours settles and what helps or gets in the way of that return.
  • Your Grounding Skills — When anxiety takes you out of the present, grounding brings you back. This check-in looks at which tools you have for that, how often you reach for them, and whether they actually work for you.

Growth Mindset

Habits

  • Clutter and Mental Space — The state of your space and the state of your mind tend to travel together. This looks at how clutter affects you and how you handle it, without judgment about tidiness.
  • Consistency Check-In — Showing up steadily matters more than any single big effort. This looks at how consistent you are with the things you say matter to you, across good weeks and bad ones.
  • How You Build Habits — Some people build new routines in small steps; others go big and burn out. This looks at how you start a habit and what happens in the weeks after.
  • How Your Mornings Start — The first hour after you wake, from the alarm to walking out the door or opening the laptop. For anyone who suspects the morning is setting the tone for the whole day.
  • Morning Routine Check — The first hour of the day sets a tone. This looks at how your mornings actually go, from the alarm to walking out the door, and how they leave you feeling.
  • Numbing Habits — Looks at the things you reach for to switch off feelings, like scrolling, drinking, overworking or bingeing shows, and how much they are running the evening. For anyone who suspects the switch-off has become automatic. No judgment here.
  • Procrastination Patterns — Everyone puts things off. This looks at what your delays cost you and what is underneath them, for anyone tired of the last-minute scramble.
  • Self-Sabotage Patterns — Looks at the ways you might quietly undercut yourself when things are going well, from missed deadlines to picking fights, and how aware you are of them. For anyone who keeps snatching defeat from the jaws of victory.
  • Structure on Hard Days — Whether you have a shape for the days when mood or energy bottoms out, and what it holds up. For anyone whose worst days tend to dissolve into nothing.
  • Your Daily Rhythm — How regular your days are: wake time, meals, light, movement and bed. For anyone whose schedule shifts so much that their body never quite knows what time it is.

How Well Do You Know Yourself

  • How Well Do You Know Yourself? Quiz — This quiz is designed to help you evaluate how well you understand your own thoughts, feelings, values, and goals. Answer each question honestly by selecting the option that best reflects you. At the end, tally your score to see your result and learn how to deepen your self-awareness.

Identity

  • Who You Are After a Change — Explores your sense of self after a big shift, such as a new role, a loss or a health change, for anyone who no longer quite knows how to describe themselves.
  • Who You Are Beyond Your Roles — Explores how much of your sense of self lives in your job, your family role, or what you do for others, and what is left when those quiet down. For anyone who has wondered who they are outside their titles.

Learning Style

Life Transitions

  • Adjusting to Retirement — Looks at how life without work is settling in: your days, your sense of purpose, your people and your money, for anyone newly retired or close to it.
  • After a Move — A check-in on how you are settling after relocating, from unpacked boxes to new faces, for anyone who has moved recently and feels not quite home yet.

Listening Skills

Loneliness

  • Asking for Support When You Are Low — How you reach for other people when your mood dips, or why you do not. For anyone who finds it easier to give help than to ask for it.
  • Loneliness Check-In — How much of an ache loneliness has been lately, whether you are surrounded by people or mostly alone. For anyone who has felt unseen even in company.
  • The Pull Toward Isolation — How strongly the urge to withdraw shows up when you are low, and what you do with it. For anyone who has been going quiet on people and is not sure why.

Loss

  • After a Breakup — Breakups can flatten you for weeks or months. This looks at where you are now: your days, your thoughts about them, and how much of yourself you have back.

Meaning

  • Legacy and Contribution — Weighs how connected you feel to the mark you are leaving and the people who will come after you, for anyone thinking about what their life adds up to.
  • Life Satisfaction Check-In — A broad look at how your life feels to live right now, across your days, your relationships and your sense of direction, for anyone wanting an honest snapshot.
  • Purpose and Meaning — Explores whether your days feel connected to something that matters to you, for anyone wondering what they are for or feeling a quiet emptiness underneath a busy life.
  • Regret and Looking Back — A check-in on how you relate to past choices you wish had gone differently, for anyone who finds themselves looking backward more than they would like.
  • Your Spiritual Life — Explores your connection to something larger than yourself, whether that looks like faith, nature, community, art or quiet, for people of any belief and none.

Mindful Breathing

Mindful Communication

Mindful Eating

Mindfulness Awareness

Money

  • Financial Stress — Looks at how money worries are sitting in your body, your sleep and your relationships, for anyone who feels the numbers more than they look at them.
  • Impulse Spending — A quick purchase can lift a mood for an hour and weigh on you for a month. This looks at when you buy on impulse, what drives it, and how it lands afterward.
  • Money Boundaries — Lending, splitting, being asked, being expected to. This check-in looks at how you handle money with the people around you, and whether your wallet gets a say.
  • Money Worry Check-In — A look at how money sits in your mind, whether the numbers are tight or not: how often it worries you, how you handle bills and balances, and how much it shapes your decisions.

Motivation

  • Daily Momentum — How easily one task rolls into the next during an ordinary day, and what happens when the roll stops. For anyone who feels stuck at the start line more than they would like.
  • Exercise Motivation — What gets you moving and what stops you, from the first thought to the front door. For anyone who wants to move more and keeps finding that wanting is not enough.
  • Motivation After a Setback — What happens to your drive after something goes wrong, from a rejection to a plan collapsing. For anyone who is trying to get back up and finding it slow.
  • Ready to Get Moving Again — Where you are in the shift from stuck to moving, whether you have been in a rut for a week or a year. For anyone who can feel something starting to stir.
  • Rewards and Treats — How you reward yourself says a lot about how you motivate yourself. This looks at when you let yourself have something good, whether it actually feels good, and whether it helps you keep going.

Motivation Style

Movement

  • Mood and Movement — How your body moving through the day connects with how you feel, from a walk to a stretch, with no focus on fitness. For anyone who suspects sitting still is not helping.
  • Movement Habits — How much your body gets to move in an ordinary week, and how you feel about it. For anyone who sits more than they would like or has lost the thread of moving for its own sake.

Openness To Feedback

Openness To New Experiences

Optimism vs Pessimism

Optimistic Thinking

Panic

  • Sudden Fear and Panic Moments — A check-in on those moments when fear rises fast: a pounding heart, dizziness, a sense that something terrible is about to happen. It looks at how often they come and how you get through them.

Parenting

  • Adjusting to New Parenthood — Looks at how you are holding up in the early months with a new baby, from sleep and support to the sense of who you are now.
  • Co-Parenting Communication — For parents raising a child across two homes. This looks at how the practical and emotional messages between you and your co-parent go, and what your child sees of it.
  • Parenting on Empty — For parents who feel wrung out. This looks at your energy, your patience, and how much of you is left at the end of a day with your kids.
  • The Empty Nest — Checks how you are settling into a home without the kids in it, for parents whose children have recently left for college, work or lives of their own.

Patience Level

Perfectionism

  • All-or-Nothing Habits — If one missed day means the whole plan is ruined, this is for you. It looks at how all-or-nothing thinking shapes your habits and what happens after a slip.
  • Perfectionism at Work — Looks at whether your high standards at work are serving you or quietly wearing you down, and what they cost in time and ease.
  • Perfectionism Check-In — Five questions about the standards you hold yourself to, what happens when you fall short, and whether good enough is ever allowed. For anyone who finds it hard to call something finished.
  • Preparing for Everything — Preparation is good until it stops being about the task and becomes a way to hold anxiety at bay. This check-in looks at how much preparing you do and what it costs you.

Perserverance

Personal Growth Focus

Personality Type

Play

  • Access to Joy — How easily joy finds you in an ordinary week, and what stands between you and it. For anyone who wonders when they last laughed without meaning to.
  • Gaming and Balance — Games are a real hobby and a real source of joy. This looks at how gaming fits alongside sleep, work, and people, for anyone wondering whether the balance is right for them.
  • Hobbies and Play — Grown-ups need play too. This looks at whether you have things you do just because you enjoy them, and how much room they get in your week.

Problem Solving Style

PTSD

  • PTSD Symptom Awareness — A non-diagnostic self-reflection tool. It cannot determine whether you have PTSD or any other condition. If your responses raise concerns, please speak with a licensed mental health professional.

Relationships

  • Arguing and Repairing — How you fight matters less than how you find your way back. This looks at what happens during a disagreement with someone close and what you both do afterward.
  • Carrying the Emotional Labor — Remembering the birthdays, smoothing the moods, noticing who needs what before they say it. A check-in on how much of the invisible emotional work in your life you carry, and whether it is shared.
  • Divorce and Separation — Looks at how you are getting through the end of a marriage or long partnership, from the quiet evenings to the anger, the logistics and the future.
  • Draining Relationships — Some people leave you fuller, some leave you empty. This check-in looks at the relationships that take more than they give, and what you do about them.
  • Emotional Closeness — Looks at how much of your inner life you share with the person closest to you, how much of theirs you hear, and whether you feel truly known.
  • Feeling Taken for Granted — When the giving stops being noticed. This check-in looks at whether your effort is seen, what you do when it isn’t, and how much resentment has quietly built up.
  • Giving and Receiving — Most people find one of these easy and the other hard. This check-in looks at whether care flows both ways in your life, or whether you are always the one holding the tray.
  • Holding Grudges — Looks at how long you hold on to hurts, what holding on costs you, and how ready you are to set some of it down. For anyone with a mental list they cannot quite close.
  • How You Attach to People — How you handle closeness and distance in relationships often traces back a long way. This looks at what you do when someone gets close, pulls back, or goes quiet.
  • How You Give and Receive Love — Looks at whether the ways you show care actually land with the people you love, and whether you can take in the care that comes your way.
  • Jealousy and Insecurity — Everyone feels a flash of jealousy now and then. This looks at how often it visits, how it behaves once it arrives, and what it does to the relationship.
  • Ready to Date — Thinking about dating, whether for the first time in a while or after a breakup? This looks at your energy, your reasons, and how much room you have for someone new.
  • Relationship Check-In — A quick read on how things feel between you and your partner right now: warmth, ease, and whether small things get said before they grow. For anyone in a relationship who wants an honest snapshot.
  • Resentment Buildup — Resentment grows in the gap between what you carry and what you say. This looks at how much has built up toward the people close to you, and what it does.
  • Sharing a Home — Living with someone, whether a partner, a roommate or family, tests small things daily. This looks at chores, space, noise and how the friction gets handled between you.
  • Stress Spilling Into Relationships — Looks at how the strain you carry from work or life lands on the people closest to you, and what they get of you at the end of the day.
  • Telling Your Partner What You Need — Looks at how easily you name what you need from your partner, from small daily asks to the bigger ones, and what tends to happen when you try.
  • Trust After Being Hurt — After a betrayal, a lie or a long disappointment, trusting again can feel impossible. This looks at where you are in that process, with a new person or the same one.

Resiliance Level

Resilience

  • Accepting What You Cannot Change — Looks at how you respond when something truly is out of your hands, from replaying it to fighting it to making peace, for anyone stuck against a wall they cannot move.
  • Getting Back on Track — Everyone falls off. What matters is the way back. This looks at how you recover after a rough week, a lapse, or a plan that fell apart.
  • Handling Disappointment — Looks at what happens when you do not get the job, the answer, the plan or the person you hoped for, and how you find your feet again. For anyone who has been let down lately.
  • Handling Rejection — A check on what happens inside you when someone says no, and how long it takes to feel like yourself again. For anyone who has ever avoided asking so they would not have to hear it.
  • How Quickly You Settle After a Spike — Anxiety spikes happen to everyone. What differs is what comes next. This check-in looks at how long a spike lingers for you, what helps it pass, and how you treat yourself afterward.

Resolving Ambiguity

Rest

  • Daily Recovery Habits — Looks at the small things you do each day to refill after effort, for anyone who wonders why rest never seems to catch up.
  • Do Weekends Restore You? — Whether the two days off actually refill you, or just move the tiredness around. For anyone who arrives at Monday feeling like the weekend never happened.
  • Guilt About Resting — Explores the voice that shows up the moment you sit down, for anyone who finds rest harder to allow than work.
  • Micro-Breaks Through the Day — Checks whether you take the small pauses that keep a workday humane, for anyone who looks up from the screen and finds it is dark outside.
  • Rest or Collapse — Whether rest in your life is something you choose or something that happens to you when you finally hit the wall. For anyone who only stops once they cannot keep going.
  • Your Energy Through the Week — Where your energy goes across a typical week, and what is left by Friday. For anyone who suspects the week is spending them faster than they can refill.

Risk-Taking Tendencies

Self-Awareness

Self-Care

  • Letting Yourself Recover When Sick — What you do when your body is ill: rest fully, rest a little, or keep going as if nothing changed. For anyone who works through every cold and wonders why they linger.
  • Physical Self-Care Basics — The plain basics of looking after a body: water, meals, sleep, fresh air, movement and a shower. This looks at which of them are happening for you right now and which have slipped.
  • Self-Neglect Signals — The small ways basic care can slip when you are low or overloaded: meals, showers, mail, medications. For anyone who has quietly stopped tending to themselves.
  • Self-Soothing Skills — Checks how well you can calm yourself when you are upset, using your senses, your breath or small comforts, without needing someone else to do it. For anyone who runs hot or wound tight.
  • Time Outdoors — How much sky, air and daylight you get in a normal week, and what it does for you when you get it. For anyone who has noticed the walls creeping closer.
  • Your Coping Toolkit — Takes stock of the ways you get through hard moments and whether they leave you better or worse off afterward. For anyone wondering if their go-to strategies still serve them.
  • Your Social Battery — Looks at how much energy you have for people right now, how quickly it drains, and whether you are getting the recovery you need between times together.

Self-Care Practices

Self-Compassion

  • Forgiving Yourself — Looks at the older regrets you still carry, how much they weigh, and whether you have found a way to set any of them down. For anyone who has apologized to everyone except themselves.
  • Inner Critic Volume — A look at how loud the critical voice in your head runs day to day, and how much room it leaves for a kinder one. For anyone who notices they talk to themselves harshly.
  • Letting Yourself Be Cared For — Explores how easy it is for you to receive help, comfort, and kindness from other people, or whether giving is the only direction you are comfortable with. For anyone who is always the one holding the soup.
  • Noticing Small Wins — Whether the small things you get right during a day register at all, or vanish under what is left undone. For anyone whose inner scoreboard only counts the misses.
  • Self-Compassion Quiz — Assess how kind you are to yourself during tough times.
  • Self-Kindness on Hard Days — Looks at how you treat yourself on the days when everything goes wrong, from what you eat and say to whether you let the day be hard. For anyone whose worst days come with a side of self-punishment.
  • Self-Talk After Mistakes — Looks at what you say to yourself in the hours after you get something wrong, and whether that talk helps you recover or keeps you down. For anyone who replays their errors at night.

Self-Confidence

Self-Discipline

Self-Esteem

  • Accepting Compliments — What happens in the half-second after someone says something kind about you. For anyone who deflects, disputes, or hands every compliment straight back.
  • Asking for Help — Some people can offer help all day and never ask for it. This check-in looks at what happens in you when you are the one who needs a hand.
  • Celebrating Yourself — Looks at whether you let yourself mark birthdays, milestones, and small good moments, or wave them past as no big deal. For anyone who is much better at throwing parties for other people.
  • Feeling Like Enough — A check on whether you feel like enough as you are, or whether you have to keep earning the right to rest, be liked, and take up space. For anyone who ends most days feeling short.
  • Handling Criticism — How feedback lands, from a small correction to a hard review. For people who want to take criticism in without taking it as a verdict on who they are.
  • Knowing Your Strengths — A check on how clearly you can see and name what you are good at, and whether you actually use it. For anyone who can list their weaknesses in seconds and their strengths not at all.
  • Needing Approval — Looks at how much other people’s reactions steer what you say, choose, and feel, and how you fare when the approval doesn’t come. For anyone who reads the room before they know what they think.
  • Owning Your Wins — A check on whether you let yourself take credit for the things you do well, or quietly hand the credit to luck and other people. For anyone who feels a bit itchy when praised.
  • Self-Respect in Action — Looks at whether the way you treat yourself day to day, in what you accept, promise, and put up with, matches the respect you would want for someone you love. For anyone who slips in practice.
  • Self-Worth Check-In — Five quick questions about where your sense of worth comes from and how steady it feels when life is not going your way. For anyone whose opinion of themselves rises and falls with the day.

Self-Motivation

Self-Reflection Habits

Shame

  • Bouncing Back From Embarrassment — Looks at what happens after you trip in public, say the wrong name, or send the message to the wrong person, and how long it stays with you. For anyone who cringes at their own history.
  • Guilt and Self-Blame — How much of what goes wrong lands on your own shoulders, and how heavy it sits there. For anyone who apologizes for things that were never theirs to carry.
  • Pride Without Shame — A look at whether you can feel proud of who you are and what you have done without a rush of embarrassment or an urge to shrink. For anyone who was taught that pride is something to hide.
  • Shame Check-In — Looks at how often shame shows up, how it sits in your body, and what you do with it once it lands. For anyone who knows the hot, sinking feeling of wanting to disappear.

Sleep

  • Bedtime Procrastination — For anyone who knows it is time for bed and stays up anyway. This looks at the pull to keep the evening going and what it costs you the next day.
  • Caffeine, Alcohol and Your Mood — A look at how coffee, energy drinks and alcohol fit into your days and nights, and what they do to your sleep and your mood once the effect wears off.
  • Daytime Tiredness — How tired you feel during the day, when it hits, and how much it shapes what you can do. For anyone who has been yawning through afternoons and wondering why.
  • Evening Routine Check — How you wind down shapes how you sleep and how tomorrow begins. This looks at the last two hours of your day, from screens to lights out.
  • Naps and Catching Up — How you handle a sleep debt: whether a nap restores you or steals the night, and whether catching up ever quite happens. For anyone who lives on a rolling deficit.
  • Racing Mind at Bedtime — For anyone whose thoughts get louder once the lights go out. This looks at what your mind does in the dark and how much say you have in it.
  • Screens and Sleep — A check on how your phone, TV and laptop fit into your nights, and whether they help you unwind or quietly keep you awake. For anyone who falls asleep to a glow.
  • Sleep Quality Check-In — A look at how your nights have actually been going lately, from falling asleep to how you feel on waking. For anyone who suspects sleep is quietly shaping their days.
  • The Sleep and Mood Link — How closely your mood tracks your sleep, and how much you notice the link while it is happening. For anyone who suspects a bad night explains more than they give it credit for.
  • Weekend Sleep Shift — How different your weekend sleep is from your weekday sleep, and what Monday feels like as a result. For anyone who wakes on Monday feeling like they crossed time zones.
  • Your Wind-Down Routine — What the last hour before bed looks like for you, and whether it helps your body know that sleep is coming. For anyone whose evenings tend to end abruptly.

Social Anxiety

  • Social Anxiety Check-In — A look at how you feel before, during, and after being around other people, from parties to small talk at the coffee machine. For anyone who leaves social moments replaying them.

Social Confidence

Social Connection

Stress

  • Daily Irritants — Looks at how much the small stuff, like noise, mess, slow drivers and other people’s habits, gets to you and how fast it stacks up. For anyone whose day feels like a series of small stings.
  • How You Respond Under Pressure — Looks at what you actually do when the stakes rise and the clock runs down, for anyone curious whether pressure sharpens or scatters them.
  • Releasing Stress Through the Body — What you do with stress once it is in your body: shake it out, walk it off, breathe it down, or leave it where it is. For anyone who thinks their way through stress and forgets they have a body.
  • Shutting Down Under Stress — Explores what happens when pressure makes you go quiet, blank or far away instead of loud. For anyone who has been told they “check out” when things get hard.
  • Student Stress Check-In — A quick check on how the pressure of classes, grades and everything around them is sitting with you right now, for students at any stage.
  • Your Stress Warning Signs — Helps you notice how early you catch stress building in your body, thoughts and habits, before it tips into overwhelm.

Stress Response

Stress Tolerance

Teamwork Tendencies

Thinking Traps

  • Catastrophizing Check — When a small thing goes wrong, how fast does your mind get to the worst case? This check-in looks at how far your thoughts jump and how easily you can bring them back down to size.
  • Overthinking Tendencies — A look at how much thinking goes on behind a simple decision, conversation, or plan, and whether the extra thinking helps you or wears you out. For anyone whose mind rarely clocks off.
  • Rumination Loops — Rumination is replaying something over and over without getting anywhere new. This check-in looks at how often you get caught in a loop, how harsh the loop is, and what it takes to step out.
  • The Comparison Habit — Explores how often you measure yourself against other people, what those comparisons do to your mood, and how quickly you can step out of them. For anyone who keeps ending up in someone else’s highlight reel.
  • Your What-If Thinking — What-if questions can be useful planning or a trapdoor into endless scenarios. This check-in looks at how your mind handles them and whether they tend to leave you prepared or spinning.

Time Management

Trust In Others

Values

  • Living by Your Values — Checks how closely your daily choices line up with what you say you care about, for anyone who suspects the two have drifted apart.

Values Calrity

Work

  • After Losing a Job — Looks at how you are holding up since a job ended, whether you were laid off, let go or walked away, from your mornings to your sense of worth.
  • Belonging at Work — Looks at whether you feel like part of the place you work or a visitor in it, for anyone who has never quite relaxed on the job.
  • Between Work and Home — Looks at how you move between your work self and your home self each day, for anyone who arrives home still wearing the workday.
  • Handling Feedback at Work — Looks at what happens inside you when someone at work tells you how you did, and how long it stays with you afterward.
  • Imposter Feelings — Explores the quiet suspicion that you do not deserve your place and will soon be found out, for anyone who has done well and cannot quite believe it.
  • Job Fit Check — Looks at how well what you do each day matches your strengths, values and energy, for anyone quietly wondering if this is still the right place.
  • Sunday Night Dread — A look at the feeling that arrives before the week begins, for anyone whose weekend ends earlier than it should.
  • Switching Off After Work — Checks whether your evenings actually belong to you, or whether work keeps running in the background after you have logged off.
  • Workload and Your Limits — Looks at how the amount on your plate compares with what you can carry, for anyone whose to-do list keeps outrunning the day.
  • Your Deadline Style — Looks at how you get things done when a date is looming, for anyone who works best at the last minute and wonders what it costs them.

Worry

  • Health Worry Check-In — A look at how you respond to aches, twinges, and the odd unexplained sensation, and how much room health worry takes in your week. For anyone who notices they check, search, or brace more than they'd like.
  • How Much Worry Runs Your Day — A quick look at how much space worry takes up in an ordinary day, from the first thought in the morning to the last one at night. For anyone who suspects worry has become background noise.
  • Living With Not Knowing — Some questions have no answer yet: test results, a job decision, whether a relationship will last. This check-in looks at how you handle the waiting and how much not knowing costs you.
  • Worrying About the People You Love — Caring about people comes with worry. This check-in looks at how much of your energy goes into fearing for the people you love and whether that worry is running past what the situation calls for.

Common questions

Are these quizzes a diagnosis?

No. Each quiz is a self-reflection check-in written in plain language. Theraglee does not diagnose, screen for, assess for or treat any condition, and a result here is never a clinical finding. Only a licensed clinician can do that.

How long does a quiz take?

Most have four or five questions and take two to five minutes. Your answers save to your own dashboard, so you can stop and pick a quiz up later.

Do I need to pay?

The quizzes are part of the Basic membership. Reading is free: every article on Theraglee is free to read, and a free account, no card needed, lets you save articles and track what you have read.

Who can see my answers?

Only you. Quiz answers live in your private dashboard. Therapists never see them, even if you switch on Theraglee Match Mode.